Just be honest.

I’m 40 and value peace, respect, and emotional safety. I enjoy reading, road trips, and continuous learning. Family values are important to me. I can be talkative with the right person and appreciate a confident man who knows how to lead and build a strong communication and relationship based on trust. I feel most comfortable with a man who shares these values, ideally someone who hasn’t been married,not separated before and is ready for something serious and stable.” Please be open about your marital status,age I value transparency from the beginning.” Otherwise I ll not answer to your Hi's.