Law enforcement professional. Patient with everything except games. Looking for someone grounded and open-minded. Real love isn't perfect—it's two people choosing each other, even through the boring or messy moments (yes, even dinner debates). Respect, loyalty, honesty, and independence? Non-negotiable. Fairytales aren't real. Don't buy into the social media fantasy—real relationships take effort, and I want someone who understands that. Open communication? Non-negotiable too. Even the weird or dark stuff—down the line, but I believe in being upfront. Not settling this time. Not selfish—just done repeating old patterns. Think of it as knowing my worth. If you've got a sharp mind, thick skin, and appreciate sarcasm wrapped in sincerity, let's talk. Worst case? You get a good story. Best case? We'll see.